Mature vs. Immature Relationship

Difference of mature and immature relationship.

Mature relationships understand space; immature relationships get too clingy.

Most mature couples know that they each have their own lives to live and that they shouldn’t make their partners the center of their attention all the time. They know how to enjoy life on their own, with their friends, or with their family. Staying in contact with your significant other 24/7 can actually strain your relationship and even lead to bigger arguments in the future.

Immature relationships go with the flow; mature relationships call each other out when needed.

Instead of agreeing with your guy on everything, you correct him when he says or does something wrong. You have your own voice and perspective in life. When you’re in a healthy relationship, you respect the fact that both of you are two different people with different opinions in life.

Mature relationships encourage you to grow; immature relationships force you to change.

Change is constant. You will never be the same person you were when you first started going out with your man. However, it’s one thing to change naturally and another to force one to change who they really are just to meet the other’s wants and needs.

Words by: đź’Ś Ana C. Pascual

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It’s Hard To Start All Over Again

No girl likes to start over with a new guy. Getting to know a guy all over again. Learning how to feel confortable with a guy all over again. Giving herself mind, body, and soul to a guy again. Going through that awkward phase of being body shy around a guy again. Sharing her secrets and spilling out her thoughts and emotions to a guy again. Meeting a new guy’s family and getting to know them all over again. Have a new guy meet her parents hoping they’ll be accepting all over again. Opening up and letting a new guy see the real side of her all over again. Fight through her trust issues and place her trust in another man again. Work on her insecurites so they won’t push a guy away all over again. Give her heart to another guy and learn to love someone new all over again. That’s why girls love to stick with the guys they’re already with, no matter how bad it is, because it’s the guys they’ve been through all that with already.

Words by: Unspoken Thoughts

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She’s Used To It

It’s okay. She’s used to people using her. She’s used to people walking out of her life. She’s used to people talking shit about her. She’s used to people pretending to be her friends. She’s used to people lying to her. She’s used to people disappointing her. She’s used to people leaving her hanging. She’s used to people stabbing her in the back. She’s used to people replacing her in their circle of friends. She’s used to people keeping secrets from her. She’s used to people betraying her trust. She’s used to people bringing down her self-esteem. She’s used to people messing with her feelings. She’s used to people toying around with her head. She’s used to people breaking her heart. So whatever you do to her at this point, it won’t be a surprise to her because chances are, it’s already been done to her. It’s just sad how it’s gotten to the point where she can say she’s used to it.

Words by: Truth Slap

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Fall In Love With Someone Who Will Do These Things To You

Fall in love with someone who will love you unconditionally. Who will accept your flaws, imperfections, shortcomings and make you feel that you’re worth having. Who will fight for you despite the difficulties and storms in life. Who will understand you and your insane or annoying mannerisms. Who will pacify you until you become okay. Who will talk to you after a long fight.

Fall in love with someone who will appreciate your efforts, and who will guide you and support you throughout your goals in life. Who will still be with you at the end of the day, who will travel for hours just to see your smile. Who will always be by your side, whatever happens.

Fall in love with someone who will kiss you every time and make you feel that you’re the most significant being in the world. Who will make you feel the sudden rush and sensation inside. Who will serenade you through phone calls until you fall asleep, and greet and text you with long and sweet messages when you wake up.

Fall in love with someone who can be your best friend and a lover at the same time. Who will stay up late with you and talk about random things in life. Who will spend the rest of the day with you, joking around, playing and laughing all day long. Who will never ever get tired of holding your hand and show to everyone how deeply he/she is in love with you.

Fall in love with someone who will forgive you every time. Who will love you first before his/her hobbies, work and anything/anyone else in this world. Who will make your every moment a heavenly bliss. Who will comply his/her promise to you. Who will respect you and your decisions in life.

Fall in love with someone who can love your soul more than your body. Who can eliminate your worries, tears, and doubts. Who will never get tired of understanding you. Who will make you happy and feel contented. Who will never fail to amaze you.

Words by: đź’Ś E.J. Cenita

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The 16 Things You Do To Conceal The Pain When Struggling To Depression

1. You use humor to cover up your pain. You make self-deprecating jokes about how you don’t have any friends and about how you want to die. But no one realizes that you’re serious, because you always say it with a smirk on your face.

2. You make excuses when people ask about you. If someone tells you that you look like crap, you won’t admit that you’ve been under severe stress. You’ll say that you’ve just been tired. Or that your allergies have been bothering you.

3. You tell yourself you’re overreacting. You don’t want to complain to your friends about your life, because you’re worried you sound like a brat. Like a baby. Like an entitled little bitch.

4. You leave such little signs. You leave a miniature trail of your depression. You repost articles about heartbreak and breakups and death. You listen to music about suicide and self-harm. But no one reads too much into it.

5. You’re in a healthy relationship. If you’re in a serious relationship, everyone will assume that you’re doing well. That a happy relationship equals two happy humans without a care in the world.

6. You keep your emotions to yourself. You write out lengthy text messages for friends and exes, but delete them before sending. Then you write melancholy lyrics and slam poetry, but you never post them online. You keep your feelings to yourself, even though they’re begging to be released into the world.

7. You wear a false smile. You don’t want to be an outcast. You don’t want to draw attention to yourself. You just want to fit in. That’s why you always pretend you’re happy. So that no one pays extra attention to you.

8. You aren’t a stereotype. You don’t walk around in all black clothing and thick eyeliner. You wear bright colors and keep your hair brushed and your body fit. The way you look on the outside doesn’t match how you feel on the inside.

9. You look happy online. You upload gorgeous selfies and post statuses about all the parties you’ve been attending. You seem happy and successful online, so everyone assumes that means you’re happy IRL, as well.

10. You refuse to see a therapist. You know you need one. You know it would help. But you don’t have the money or the time or the willpower to actually visit one. So you suffer alone.

11. You casually talk about tragedies. When you actually open up about your issues, you act like they’re no big deal. Like they don’t make a difference to you. Like you haven’t been crying over them every night for a week.

12. You’ve learned how to lie well. If someone asks why you didn’t answer their texts or attend class, you don’t let them know it was because you spent the entire day in bed. You tell them you were out having the time of your life.

13. You keep secrets. When you engage in self-destructive behaviors, you do it on your own time. No one realizes that you’ve been getting drunk every night after work or have been having unprotected sex with strangers, because you keep it to yourself.

14. You cry alone. When you’re upset in public, you’ll find a private bathroom to bawl your eyes out in. And before you leave, you’ll splash your face with water and adjust your make-up. Your friends won’t even know the difference when they see you again.

15. You put other people first. Even if you have a close friend you can open up to, you won’t let her know about your problems until she’s told you all about her problems. And by the time she’s finished ranting, you don’t feel like saying anything anymore.

16. You’re fully functional. You still work. You still eat. You still sleep. You still see your friends. You do everything a twenty-something should be doing, so no one realizes anything is out of the ordinary.

Words by: Truth Slap

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Consistency Is A Struggle

It’s very easy to say I love you to someone. But living up to your words is one of the hardest. It’s too easy to fall in love but consistency is a struggle. It’s easy to give the hugs and kisses but what is difficult is truly accepting someone’s whole self. You must be blessed if you have somebody who has been consistent since day one and accepts your IMPERFECTIONS with no buts and ifs.

Words by: Truth Slap

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JaDine Loveteam FTW!

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James Reid and Nadine Lustre or collectively known as “JaDine”, are now one of the biggest, hottest and in demand young stars in their generation today. I don’t like it when they are being compared to other loveteams, more specifically to “KathNiel”, because KN fans are so mad about JD’s existence. Why is that? Hmm. Are they threatened about JaDine’s fast rise to the top in the showbiz industry? When honestly speaking, everything that JaDine does is extremely unique and classy. They can sing, dance, act, ramp, host, etc. Name it! They can do it! Talented and versatile actor and actress individually and most especially as a loveteam. They do not follow nor mimic anyone of them. They are just being themselves. That’s it! They have an edge that other loveteams don’t have. They have their own built and talents together with them. They are just exceptional.

On The Wings Of Love (OTWOL) is currently shown on ABS-CBN’s Primetime Bida, where they have a back-to-back show with KathNiel’s Pangako Sayo (PSY). In my opinion, there’s no competition between the two loveteams. Like why would they be? They are in the same network and they are supposed to get along and have fun. In fact, JaDine even acknowledged that KathNiel is far and greater with what they have reached now. It’s just their fans who are paranoid that JD might cover and totally wiped out KN’s fame. So silly, right?

One thing’s certain about JaDine that I like about……………… they don’t hide and pretend with their feelings for each other. They are just REAL.

Haaaaysss.. Anyways, here are more kilig pictures of JaDine that I fell in love with and you also will surely love:

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ABS-CBN TV PLUS

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ABS-CBN’s new offer to each Filipino families is to cater their needs in watching Kapamilya shows still good as new and they call it as TV Plus Magic Black Box. This little box gives a smooth and clear reception on TV on each of our homes which costs P2,500. It has exclusive channels namely:
1. ABS-CBN TV Network (Kapamilya shows)
2. Cinemo (for movies of all time)
3. Knowledge Channel (lessons good for kids)
4. DZMM (live on radio and on TV)
5. Yey (cartoons for kids)

Months after, they make a promo and shown this on a TV commercial that when you buy one, you will get this for only P1,999 with those specially marked surf and tide stickers. I got excited and hoping I could get one.

I am so happy I was able to purchased this promo because the last time I went to SM Appliances the other day, the stocks has still not arrived here in Cebu. I felt gloomy that time because it only runs until October 21. I was fully decided that on the next time I would visit SM again, I will buy the P2,500 magic black box before the said date ends. Luckily, 1 week after, I went to SM to buy the black box. What surprised me was that when I was fully decided to purchased the P2,500, the P1,999 promo was available so I grab the chance and took the black box home with me. My mom was so happy because finally we can clearly see the faces of our beloved idols on TV with no marks of scratches and running lines that makes it blur on it. When buying the black box, you will also get a free ABS-CBN mobile sim with it. I can now be able to watch their exclusive movie like “Must Date the Playboy” played by Kim Chiu and Xian Lim using this.

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My Mamon Minion

We can’t deny the fact that minions are slowly invading our world like, lol? Hahaha. Because a lot of TV commercials now are about them. Be it in mamon, mcdo, tictac, etc. because they are now showing on cinemas this July 8, 2015. That’s today! But yeah, really, they are so cute and amusing to the extent their makers are making them real for us to experience how it feels to have our own minion, not just the way we see them on TV, but for real.

There’s a minion commercial on TV that really enticed me. I was so excited to have one too because you’ll be able to make a minion face on your own mamon. I was so envious just by watching it and eventually buy it in the grocery myself. What I’m talking about is this mamon-it-yourself #MyMamonMinion. There’s a FREE mamon minion maker kit in monde special mamon pack of six (6)! So here are the pictures of my fun and enjoyable time in making my own minion.

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