Mature vs. Immature Relationship

Difference of mature and immature relationship.

Mature relationships understand space; immature relationships get too clingy.

Most mature couples know that they each have their own lives to live and that they shouldn’t make their partners the center of their attention all the time. They know how to enjoy life on their own, with their friends, or with their family. Staying in contact with your significant other 24/7 can actually strain your relationship and even lead to bigger arguments in the future.

Immature relationships go with the flow; mature relationships call each other out when needed.

Instead of agreeing with your guy on everything, you correct him when he says or does something wrong. You have your own voice and perspective in life. When you’re in a healthy relationship, you respect the fact that both of you are two different people with different opinions in life.

Mature relationships encourage you to grow; immature relationships force you to change.

Change is constant. You will never be the same person you were when you first started going out with your man. However, it’s one thing to change naturally and another to force one to change who they really are just to meet the other’s wants and needs.

Words by: 💌 Ana C. Pascual

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It’s Hard To Start All Over Again

No girl likes to start over with a new guy. Getting to know a guy all over again. Learning how to feel confortable with a guy all over again. Giving herself mind, body, and soul to a guy again. Going through that awkward phase of being body shy around a guy again. Sharing her secrets and spilling out her thoughts and emotions to a guy again. Meeting a new guy’s family and getting to know them all over again. Have a new guy meet her parents hoping they’ll be accepting all over again. Opening up and letting a new guy see the real side of her all over again. Fight through her trust issues and place her trust in another man again. Work on her insecurites so they won’t push a guy away all over again. Give her heart to another guy and learn to love someone new all over again. That’s why girls love to stick with the guys they’re already with, no matter how bad it is, because it’s the guys they’ve been through all that with already.

Words by: Unspoken Thoughts

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She’s Used To It

It’s okay. She’s used to people using her. She’s used to people walking out of her life. She’s used to people talking shit about her. She’s used to people pretending to be her friends. She’s used to people lying to her. She’s used to people disappointing her. She’s used to people leaving her hanging. She’s used to people stabbing her in the back. She’s used to people replacing her in their circle of friends. She’s used to people keeping secrets from her. She’s used to people betraying her trust. She’s used to people bringing down her self-esteem. She’s used to people messing with her feelings. She’s used to people toying around with her head. She’s used to people breaking her heart. So whatever you do to her at this point, it won’t be a surprise to her because chances are, it’s already been done to her. It’s just sad how it’s gotten to the point where she can say she’s used to it.

Words by: Truth Slap

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The 16 Things You Do To Conceal The Pain When Struggling To Depression

1. You use humor to cover up your pain. You make self-deprecating jokes about how you don’t have any friends and about how you want to die. But no one realizes that you’re serious, because you always say it with a smirk on your face.

2. You make excuses when people ask about you. If someone tells you that you look like crap, you won’t admit that you’ve been under severe stress. You’ll say that you’ve just been tired. Or that your allergies have been bothering you.

3. You tell yourself you’re overreacting. You don’t want to complain to your friends about your life, because you’re worried you sound like a brat. Like a baby. Like an entitled little bitch.

4. You leave such little signs. You leave a miniature trail of your depression. You repost articles about heartbreak and breakups and death. You listen to music about suicide and self-harm. But no one reads too much into it.

5. You’re in a healthy relationship. If you’re in a serious relationship, everyone will assume that you’re doing well. That a happy relationship equals two happy humans without a care in the world.

6. You keep your emotions to yourself. You write out lengthy text messages for friends and exes, but delete them before sending. Then you write melancholy lyrics and slam poetry, but you never post them online. You keep your feelings to yourself, even though they’re begging to be released into the world.

7. You wear a false smile. You don’t want to be an outcast. You don’t want to draw attention to yourself. You just want to fit in. That’s why you always pretend you’re happy. So that no one pays extra attention to you.

8. You aren’t a stereotype. You don’t walk around in all black clothing and thick eyeliner. You wear bright colors and keep your hair brushed and your body fit. The way you look on the outside doesn’t match how you feel on the inside.

9. You look happy online. You upload gorgeous selfies and post statuses about all the parties you’ve been attending. You seem happy and successful online, so everyone assumes that means you’re happy IRL, as well.

10. You refuse to see a therapist. You know you need one. You know it would help. But you don’t have the money or the time or the willpower to actually visit one. So you suffer alone.

11. You casually talk about tragedies. When you actually open up about your issues, you act like they’re no big deal. Like they don’t make a difference to you. Like you haven’t been crying over them every night for a week.

12. You’ve learned how to lie well. If someone asks why you didn’t answer their texts or attend class, you don’t let them know it was because you spent the entire day in bed. You tell them you were out having the time of your life.

13. You keep secrets. When you engage in self-destructive behaviors, you do it on your own time. No one realizes that you’ve been getting drunk every night after work or have been having unprotected sex with strangers, because you keep it to yourself.

14. You cry alone. When you’re upset in public, you’ll find a private bathroom to bawl your eyes out in. And before you leave, you’ll splash your face with water and adjust your make-up. Your friends won’t even know the difference when they see you again.

15. You put other people first. Even if you have a close friend you can open up to, you won’t let her know about your problems until she’s told you all about her problems. And by the time she’s finished ranting, you don’t feel like saying anything anymore.

16. You’re fully functional. You still work. You still eat. You still sleep. You still see your friends. You do everything a twenty-something should be doing, so no one realizes anything is out of the ordinary.

Words by: Truth Slap

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Consistency Is A Struggle

It’s very easy to say I love you to someone. But living up to your words is one of the hardest. It’s too easy to fall in love but consistency is a struggle. It’s easy to give the hugs and kisses but what is difficult is truly accepting someone’s whole self. You must be blessed if you have somebody who has been consistent since day one and accepts your IMPERFECTIONS with no buts and ifs.

Words by: Truth Slap

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JaDine Loveteam FTW!

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James Reid and Nadine Lustre or collectively known as “JaDine”, are now one of the biggest, hottest and in demand young stars in their generation today. I don’t like it when they are being compared to other loveteams, more specifically to “KathNiel”, because KN fans are so mad about JD’s existence. Why is that? Hmm. Are they threatened about JaDine’s fast rise to the top in the showbiz industry? When honestly speaking, everything that JaDine does is extremely unique and classy. They can sing, dance, act, ramp, host, etc. Name it! They can do it! Talented and versatile actor and actress individually and most especially as a loveteam. They do not follow nor mimic anyone of them. They are just being themselves. That’s it! They have an edge that other loveteams don’t have. They have their own built and talents together with them. They are just exceptional.

On The Wings Of Love (OTWOL) is currently shown on ABS-CBN’s Primetime Bida, where they have a back-to-back show with KathNiel’s Pangako Sayo (PSY). In my opinion, there’s no competition between the two loveteams. Like why would they be? They are in the same network and they are supposed to get along and have fun. In fact, JaDine even acknowledged that KathNiel is far and greater with what they have reached now. It’s just their fans who are paranoid that JD might cover and totally wiped out KN’s fame. So silly, right?

One thing’s certain about JaDine that I like about……………… they don’t hide and pretend with their feelings for each other. They are just REAL.

Haaaaysss.. Anyways, here are more kilig pictures of JaDine that I fell in love with and you also will surely love:

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February 1st

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Say goodbye to month of January and say hello to February! 💘

February is actually the month of love where love is in the air. It’s indeed FEB-ibig! This is one of the special months people always look forward to aside from December which is the Christmas season.

You will notice people usually show affection to their loved ones which aside of course from their partners in life when this month comes. A month full of love and happiness like there’s no tomorrow.

Let’s always make time for our loved ones and show to them how much we value and love them every single day. Cherish every moment while it lasts. Let’s make memories. You can make money but you can’t always make memories. Now is the perfect time to show them that we love them unconditionally so let’s start now!

Halloween 2015

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This was my very first time to attend or participate in a Halloween Party and this was organized by Qualfon management. I felt so amused and entertained about the decorations and stuffs. My inner kid was out again and just want to have fun. They have wonderful ambiance in every floors and all I did was purely taking pictures of beautiful memories like this because I believe that memories shouldn’t be forgotten.

Our theme for this year was “Disney Princes and Princesses”. The first thing that comes to my mind was this question, “Oh my gosh. Should I be like Elsa, Cinderella, Snow White, etc.? But I cannot afford all their dresses”. All I really thought when we say Halloween was to be an evil witch and all those scary faces, but this one was not. Good thing I thought of something which wouldn’t let me spend more. I already have a top and skirt so my only concern now would be the headband.

They say no to dark forces so I ended up to be a “MINNIE MOUSE”!!! This was my #ootd for the halloween party.

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I really had fun! So much fun! We took a lot of pictures and I’m with my friends who enjoyed this event!
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